Women’s Clothing Club

 

Women love to be adored and they like that men should shower all their attention on them. There is hardly a single woman on the face of the plant who does not like to be loved by a man, but what is it that attracts men to women. God has made women to be loved and has endowed her with many qualities that men seek. Here are the 4 qualities that men usually seek form women:

 

1. The Movements

 

Women are naturally gifted with a body that is graceful and they have to learn to use the same to their advantage. Men are attracted by the way a woman walks. The fluidity of their movements coupled with the gentle swinging of their hips attracts the eyes of the men like a magnet attracts iron.

 

Even the most simple of acts like bending up to pick something seems more graceful when performed by a woman. Their body language in everything they do is so fluid, smooth and graceful and this gets enhanced if she has a figure to match.

 

2. The Hair

 

While this may seem to be an exaggeration the long, soft and silky hair of women plays a long part in attracting men. They have hair that is more luxurious that the coarse ones their male counterparts have. There are some women who do not bother about this fact and trim their hair extremely short. While this may increase their personality a bit, it helps to reduce their sensuality.

 

If you are the head of a huge company and have to attend to meetings day in and day out, then this might make sense, but there are many leaders of the world, scientists and other achievers who are women and yet have long hair. Men are attracted by the flowing tresses of women and the latter should spare no pains to keep the same well maintained.

 

3. The Eyes & Lips

 

Have you ever noted how the strongest of persons go weak in the knees when a women smiles at him? God has gifted women with many assets to attract men, but these two assets of women are their biggest plus points. Women can convey many things without speaking a word just by their smile and the look of their eyes.

 

When one smiles, the muscles of their eyes are activated too and the eye smiles too. A man might spend a lot of time by moving his hands, feet etc. to convey a single point. Women does the same and maybe more with just a single flutter of their eyelids and if she so happens to smile at the same time, it just melts the toughest of men.

 

4. The Body

 

Women are gifted with a great figure and it takes just a small effort from their side to maintain the same. Women, dressed in clothes that enhance her figure are more likely to attract men than those who do not.

 

I feel sorry to say that there are many women who have stunning figures that would make eve a corpse come alive, but due to the wrong selection of their clothes they murder one of their most vital assets. Dress properly in figure enhancing clothes and see men swarm all around you.

 

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Women like a guy who dresses well, we can take this as a fact. First of all, remove any preconceived notions you may have that you need to be head to toe in designer wear to be considered a “good dresser” because that just isn’t true. Its also true to say that what looks good on one guy may not look as good… or good at all, on the next guy. So why is this? Simply put, we come in all different shapes, sizes and colors. Not only that, but its kinda cringe worthy when you see old guys still wearing Abercombie and Fitch just about as much as it is when you see a chubby guy who’s been working out a few weeks and squeezes on a tight shirt to show off his “pythons” and manboobs, sorry “pecs” in.

Lets say you are a big guy, by big i mean fat. Your first priority is to get in shape. Being lean says quite a bit about your character; It gives women the impression you are a man of self - esteem and value your appearance which means you are a man of self worth. It also shows you are goal driven and determined as you persistently workout and that you are, dare i say it? ****!. Yes, just like us guys look at girls bodies and think about what they look like ***** women do the same. So work on your stamina, big guy.

Ok, enough of the drill sergeant act. Being big around the waist doesn’t mean you can’t pick up women, it just makes it a little harder unless you have tight social-proofing (if you don’t know what social-proofing means refer to my confidence article - part 1). Wearing a black shirt will instantly make you look slimmer, add a sports jacket to that an you’ll look like someone of authority. It’s worth mentioning here that it’s not just the clothes you wear but HOW you wear them. I will go in depth into this more in a future article on body language, but its worth noting that you should have your shoulder blades back and chest up. This isn’t to say you over exaggerate and walk around like Mr. Incredible but it keeps you from slouching and walking with level shoulders and your chin up says dominance, a man with prowess - and that to women is attractive. For fat guys shirts or sweaters with horizontal lines are a no no, they will make you look like a walking globe so avoid this at all costs.

So what if you are big but muscular? All to often big muscular guys will try to show off their physique by wearing clothes from Baby Gap. My friends, the only people you are attracting wearing clothes a size or two too small for you is *** guys and other guys who work out. The best way to dress if you are muscular is by wearing tapered, slim fitting clothes that show the shape of your physique but leave mystery to it, for instance; a slim fitting cashmere sweater with dress pants and nice shoes accessorized with a decent watch will have womens attention for sure. Guys with decent physiques benefit from the exuberating confidence of knowing they have a decent body which actually attract women more than the physique itself. So leave the tank tops and lycra shorts in the 80’s fellas.

On the opposite end of the spectrum we have skinny guys. Skinny guys who wear baggy clothes look like walking hangers, stop that. Skinny guys can potentially look good in anything other than clothes that make them look frail. So stick to slim fitting designs, and perhaps layer your outfits and experiment with what you like. Don’t be afraid to look a bit funky and add your own unique style and flare.

To co-ordinate the colors of your clothing here is a simple rule of thumb; Earth colors go together, don’t mix them up with loud colors such as red. Match 2 pairs of clothing together for instance; Tanned shoes match a tanned sweater with a black jacket that matches black jeans. Just look for things that co-ordinate and don’t wear more than 2 or 3 colors in one outfit if wearing earth colors, just keep it simple.

Don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through with the kind of clothes you wear. Self expression through how you dress is a great thing. Personally I’m a fan of artistic designed t-shirts and sweaters with a good fit in the day and smart dress and shoes in the evening. It’s all good as long as we look and feel good in what we wear.

Till next time,

Eros 

How to pick up women

P.S. Keep your white shoes clean!

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First looks will always be essential – It is where all starts. No matter how good your speaking and body language are, the way you present yourself is way too important to leave it unnoticed. With just a few touches you can stop being “one other guy” and become a standout of wherever you go: the party, the restaurant - even in the bus or train. Most men can become, through proper fashion and grooming choices, physically attractive. Some other are really unlucky and don’t have it that easy – but our goal here is to get you to the point where at least the way you look is not an obstacle anymore. Women would have a much harder time.

Implicit assumptions about you will be made after the way you dress. In a woman’s eyes, with just a glance you can be labeled from **** to normal or even directly boring. Immediately she will believe that your lifestyle is also one of those three – which one would you like her to think you are? Make her make the judgments you want.

So, for starters, go and search for what looks the best for you – those clothes that will inspire the girl to make those judgments mentioned above. Some men will be more attractive with shirts, some other with stripes and a couple more with tight t-shirts. That just depends on you. Seek advice – ask women what suits you best. What will capture the attention and curiosity of other women? It is not hard to find out either. Go out, try your discoveries and see what brings the most success and attention. Build on that and soon you’ll exactly know what clothes you have to use.

Also, if you like a certain type of women, check out for which kind of men is she always around with. Do they dress up in a certain way? Always keep an eye on high status men and the clothes they wear – look into the fashion and details of these men, the ones women want. Don’t go and directly copy them all, just watch and analyze the details. But then, imagine if all your girls were with men wearing black, well polished shoes. Then you could start thinking about dropping the snickers and getting a couple of those, no doubts. If you want to be successful, start thinking about making some investment on it. Cheap clothes could look nice on you, but good quality material will certainly look even better – and results will come according!

Finally, put artistry into your looks – go and dress dodgy. You are already looking good, well dressed and showing off a great presentation. But so do many other men. To stand out it is time for strange combinations, crazy inscriptions, interesting adornments… Those will make the final difference. By no means be cheesy! Keep your line. Don’t get so full adornments nor try many combinations at the same time. That’s not the point. The idea here is to show you are a hit, someone special – so don’t go and look like a social reject.

Dressing up unlike the others you will make you hold up against an overwhelming social pressure. If you can manage to keep up with it, look natural and enjoying the situation women will notice. You’ll be demonstrating a higher value. And that, as we know, in women physic means many, many points for you. So go and buy yourself some rings, chains, nice colored pants… And wear them in the field!

That is all the essence behind dressing up for success. Looking what looks best for you, keeping an eye on high status men and dressing dodgy are the keys. Nevertheless, there are still many details and touches you will be developing over time. Below is a little list of factors you should all be considering and working out before going back to the clubs:

- If you are small, get extra height. Men don’t go wearing high heels as women do, but many shoes can make you a couple of centimeters taller. If you are not small, also try wearing these shoes. We look to stand out and a taller, sexier figure will always sum up.

- You are a bit blind? Still, get rid of those glasses. Personally I love to wear mine out and I think I really look **** with them. Most men, though, look not. And nowadays you got contacts or laser surgery to fix your eyes. Go and try. Also, consider switching colors if there is one that makes you look much better: colored contacts are cheap and look quite real.

- Remove your excess hair. Some men look nice with beard of moustache – or with some days without shaving on. Do you? If not, shave. Gillete’s advertisements make some sense as women do not really like to go touching men with itchy and dirty skin. If you got too much hair on your chest or back, also consider cutting it out. A bit of hair looks manly, too much makes you look like a monkey.

- If you got acne or scars on your face, go straight to the dermatologist: those guys exist to fix problems as such. We all look better without acne – so consider putting on makeup if you have to. It is not reserved only for women and it’s not girly to look better. So go and buy all the creams and potions you’ll need.

- Don’t go looking sick. Spend some time in the solarium and also whiten your teeth. Never, though, be cheesy – don’t go too brown in autumn, winter. But a bit of color will always look better than a pale, hospital-looking skin. In summer skip the solarium and switch to the good old sun. As for the teeth, it’s a must; No girls would go kissing a guy who has them all dirty and yellow, we can bet on that.

Following my recommendations here will not necessarily make you the hot personality of any party from one day to the other; it is, though, a gigantic step in that direction. Dressing up and the possibilities it opens should not be underestimated. Pursue these instructions and the ones coming and you will certainly see the improvements.

It never ceases to amaze me looking at how poorly some guys dress when they go out to a club, bar or just the mall. All these places are opportunities to meet women and yet I see guys appearing like dorks or flat out unkempt and dirty. Looking like a bum will earn you no points with women in the “looks” department.

If you are one of these guys that has been wearing the same old stained t-shirt for the past five years or thinks wearing a sports jersey to a club is high fashion then take the time to reevaluate your wardrobe and donate all your old clothing and purchase new cloths. There is nothing wrong in experimenting with a new look. Start off with one item and slowly work your way in adopting more articles of clothing that will be your new wardrobe.

When I moved from New York City to Southern California I neither wore board shorts nor sandals. After some time I began to experiment with a pair and I felt okay wearing, after all I live near a beach community so it makes perfect sense. However, I drop that attire when I hit the club and I’ll put on a button down shirt with a nice pair of jeans and shoes.

Consider what I’m about to say one of life’s mysteries there is no explaining it just simply accept it. Pay in particular attention the shoes you wear. Women will look at a man and the first thing she will notice is what kind of shoes he’s wearing. You should have a minimum of four pairs, two pairs of dress shoes in black and brown and two pairs of casual shoes, again in brown and black.

Also it doesn’t hurt to buy a nice bottle of cologne. My personal favorites are from Jean Paul Gaultier and Bulgari for men. Throw away that bottle of old spice and kick it up a notch with a new scent but don’t over do it with the cologne. Nothing is more disgusting than someone that has sprayed half a bottle on their body..

Some common sense tips as far as hygiene is concerned bath every day with soap and water. I recommend lathering up twice and clean your body thoroughly Brush your teeth and use mouth wash for those of you with yellow or stained teeth try using those over the counter teeth whiteners. Shave everyday or make sure your ****** hair is neatly trimmed and well groomed. Believe me this will go a long way women are not attracted to guys that don’t take care of themselves.

Let’s be honest do you have the same hair cut since you were 15? Visit a salon and get some advise from a stylist they are experts in knowing what hair cut is most appropriate for your face. Change your look and you may notice more women opening up to you. Don’t be afraid of change, it’s healthy mentally and who knows you may like it.

By no means do I suggest that expensive cloths will get the girl - on the contrary women will look at a man’s personality and masculinity above all else. What I do argue is that looking clean and presentable will open you up to more women.

Don’t overdo the personal care here, I mean don’t become a ‘meterosexual’ and book an appointment for a manicure, pluck your eyebrows and start reading Cosmo. Deep down confident men are comfortable with their looks no matter what however they also take care of themselves. There is nothing wrong with a man looking his best, having a nice hair cut, wearing nice cloths and smelling good. The point here is not to over do it and keep it normal.

If you appreciate older women, you will be surprised that there are a number of different ways that you can attract them. Are you wondering how to attract older women? By nature it seems like older women have always had a strong appeal for younger men, no matter what the age gap is. However, if you still feel a little shy about the entire thing, it would be fruitful to be aware of the fact that you are by no means alone in this.

Older women really do have a great deal to offer, including a real sense of humor, and experience. Older women are usually way past playing games that younger women are still flirting with, so if you are looking for a real woman, this article teaching how to attract older women will definitely be a help.

- Be Respectful - Really, this is the kind of advice that holds true no matter who you are trying to attract, but it is especially true when it comes to learning how to attract older women. Older women have seen all of the strutting that men do, and by now they are simply not impressed. You do not have to be deferential, but strive for politeness. Combine politeness with true honest admiration and you may just be able to help her focus on spending some time with a younger man.

- Remind Her how Gorgeous She Is - Any woman is going to enjoy being told that she is attractive. This really only works if the compliment is sincere which means that it is something that you simply cannot overdo. However, if you are telling the truth, is it really overdoing it? Let her know that you find her attractive, by speaking directly about the things that you view to be beautiful. Even if she is not interested in striking up a relationship with you, you can really make her day with a sincere compliment.

- Find more interesting things to talk about than yourself - If you really want to know how to attract an older woman, know that women prefer men who are interested in them. Show her that you are interested in hearing what she has to say, and you will have a serious leg up on the situation by giving her a real change of pace in the dating world.

- Keep yourself groomed well - This should go without saying, but unfortunately it usually doesn’t. It is important to consider good grooming when it comes to preparing yourself to attract older women out there. No matter the age, women can appreciate a small bit of formality in everything that they do. Do you enjoy it when women dress up nice for you? Do the same for her. A shave can do wonders, for example, and the $9 for a fresh haircut is well worth the effort.